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Okay guys you will tell me if I am evil… and tell me if I went over the line with this one…but let me give you a little history first.
Last year I dated a man who we will call “M” who was fairly deceitfull about what he wanted from me, and I believed him when he said that he was looking for a relationship and that he liked me. At first he was attentive then he would only call every two or three weeks. He said he was looking for the same thing as I was, a relationship….then poof! I wouldn’t hear from him again for a 3 or 4 weeks. Yes, I know I was stupid and believed him each time he did it….it lasted about 7 or 8 months before the light bulb went on. Yes, I know….so it ended when he made plans with myself and my daughter for dinner and then he stood us up. (My daughter is 22 years old) He then proceeded to call me 6 weeks later to see me and was SHOCKED when I flatly told him “no” and that I didn’t wish for him to call me again. Okay….so here is the “evil” part…..
So…….kinda ashamed about this guys….but here goes…..I started a profile on Yahoo Personals the other day and was looking around and saw a man that looked familier….it was ”M’s” twin brother. So…..you know that devil on one shoulder and the angel on the other? Well the devil kicked the angels’ ass and she led me into sending a quick “hi” to “T”….”M’s” twin brother. I KNOW! QUIT SHOUTING!
So, (sorry can’t stop laughing while typing this) I had told him we had actually met already and he sent a reply asking when and if I was getting him confused with his brother. (sorry, still laughing)….I KNOW! EVIL! So, I told him that I HAD date his brother a few times….I am waiting to hear back….dying actually to see if he calls me on my evilness (which would be kinda cool, I love it when people call me on my shit) or just does the guy thing and flirts….I can’t wait to find out!
Evil, evil evil…..(smile)
I will keep you informed!
About a year ago I was on Match.com and started emailing back and forth with a man who said he was an underwater filmaker/photographer. This sounded kinda cool. We had spoken on the phone a few times and he seemed like a nice guy. This was in the beginning of my real dating life so I hadn’t developed by “weird radar” yet. anyways, we planned on meeting at a local zoo. I thought it was a great idea for a first date. He seemed to really like animals like I did, so it sounded like things might go well since we would have that in common. Okay, but that is where it goes all awry!
We got to the zoo and as we made out way through past the different animals we came to the otter pen. This reminded him that he had recently spoken with his gypsy (yes, I said gypsy) and she had said that he had been an otter in a past life (yes, I said otter as in argh argh).
Having grown up in rural Vermont I have heard of “feminine wiles” from the romance books that almost every young girl reads….but, come on. Does a woman have to do that in real life? I never had to before….there was always a guy in my life and I don’t remember having to do anything that sounded like this “game” that I hear from all the professionals. Like, don’t tell too much about yourself on the first date. Make the date a short date so he is left wanting more. Seem mysterious, come on girls this is kinda funny!
Okay, so I have been dating for the last two years and not really finding anyone that I wanted to keep around for more than a few weeks, and the other way around (frown). So I asked a male friend jokingly what the heck I was doing wrong! And he told me first that what he was about to reveal could possibly lose him his “male” card. They are not allowed to share secrets with the enemy. LOL! So he asked me if I held sex as the trump card? WHAT?
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